I am TTC and need some advice?

well first off, if you are TTC you need to stop smoking...i also am TTC and a smoker and trying really hard to quit. alcohol and pot will both lower sperm count and cause unfertility. im not saying its impossible to get pregnant if he does those things but he really should stop smoking. ESPECIALLY if you are wanting a baby. stress can make you less fertile also. not to be rude,i know your not, but it sounds like your trying to be less fertile! cigarettes, marijuana, and alcohol all have an effect on fertility. if you cut out these things your chances will be much greater! i wish you both the best of luck and sending baby dust your way!!